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6月27日 The Generation Gap ScenarioWhat is it that makes it quite impossible for one generation of people to understand another generation?, need further clarification?.....well, I’m sure you all would have at some point in your life had many arguments with your parents on various topics like how they find the way you go about living your life not very, lets say……appropriate or even very basic fundamental differences like the music you listen to, the way you go about spending your leisure time or even the way you talk with your friends?!!. I mean, these are things that actually don’t really concern parental wisdom let’s say. I know it’s one thing for a parent to guide a child when he or she is going a path which they KNOW will lead to the kids destruction, but somewhere along the line it gets kind of twisted and next thing you know, everything you possibly do can never be something agreeable with your parents and anything you say has no significance in the matter at all?. Does this happen due to the inbred nature of man to impose himself or herself on another human being? , or has it something to do with the way we have been created?.....no one really knows, but it is something that causes a lot of friction between one generation of people to another generation. From my childhood, my parents have been immensely loving and caring to both my sister and me and they have our undying love for being their for us in every possible way, but after one starts to grow up and starts learning about the world around them in their own way, their comes a conflict of interests which causes many parents to become very strict with their kids and thereby not actually helping matters, but making things blow out of proportion even more!. My mother for instance, (she is in every sense of the word, what a mother should be to her child) but after my sister and me grew up, it has increasingly become apparent that basic communication with her leads to many arguments and unnecessary tension on both sides concerned. I’m sure a lot of what has happened in the past has a lot to do with it just as every family would but I sure wish there was a way that we could both be able to understand each others point of view and try to come to some kind of real understanding. But when someone, especially my mother, tries to enforce her beliefs or ways of living on me, it really gets annoying and I find myself stuck unable to have a decent conversation with her! All my life I’ve had a special antipathy to anybody who has tried to somehow force other people to adhere to their ways of living and not respect the individual person’s point of view. Well, coming to a conclusion, I don’t really have the answer to this very troublesome problem which we can all relate to in some way or the other, but I do ask one thing of all you readers. Knowing that there is a problem is half the problem solved!......so let’s hope for the best in future endeavors with people from one generation to the next!.....adios fellow bloggers! 评论 (2)
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